What I value most and what fascinates me most when I come across it, in me and others, is a heart full of wonder, without judgment and old emotions, an openness to experience this very moment. What other experience can make this so easy than playing or listening to good music. And when I play there is love all around, in the eyes of my fellow players, in the faces of the listeners, you can almost physically experience it in the space surrounding you. It is this tapping into a source indefinitely vaster than yourself that creates a friendliness in yourself and everywhere around.